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What do you do when your partner is cheating on you?
This is what you need to know if you catch your partner or spouse cheating:
1. Do not become emotional about it.
2. Do not become anxious.
3. Do not become a victim of circumstance.
4. Do not become confrontational.
5. Do not gossip about your ordeal with your friends.
6. Do not make rash decisions.
7. Do not continue to badger the cheater about his or her mistake.
8. Do not become a cheater yourself.
9. Do not go through his or her stuff.
10. Do know what you want and what you will not tolerate.
11. Do remember that everything is not about you.
12. Do acknowledge God and allow Him to direct your path.
13. Do look within self regarding why your partner cheated
14. Do understand why you attracted him or her in your life.
15. Do look at the big picture of why the two of you came together.
16. Do forgive regardless of whether who’s right or wrong.
17. Do communicate with the cheater.
18. Work it out if necessary or leave it alone.
19. Do understand that time will heal all wounds.
20. Do continue to walk in love.
My friend, regardless of what brought you together, becoming too emotional will continue to break you apart if you choose not to resolve the situation or circumstance in the spirit of love. “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV
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